Tuesday, May 10, 2016

Lady at the tea stall

        In September, when I with my 2 friends and cofounders Rohit and Sumit moved to Bangalore, we lived in a PG in front of Inchara Hotel, JP Nagar for 5 months. We 3 and 2 of our neighbors became good friends. We used go out for tea and cigarettes every 2-3 hours. There was a tea shop beside Inchara Hotel. A guy of about 30 years old, a servant and a girl of around 25 years old used to be in the shop.
        When I went to the shop for the first time for tea with my friends, from the corner of my eye, I was observing the girl. I noticed that she was unhappy. I wondered who is she. May be sister of the guy. Then I saw the toe ring, that only married women wear. She must be the guy's wife. I came back to PG in 10 minutes. I was thinking about her the whole day. I kept guessing her story and reason for unhappiness.
        She is young and married. She runs a shop. She gives tea and cigarettes to customers.
        Why will any girl want to run a tea cigarette shop? Will any girl marry any guy if she knows she has to run a shop for him? Obviously doesn't seem likely. She might not be expecting this before marriage. She might have expected a luxirious life after marriage as all girls do. But what happened instead. She is made to run a tea cigarette shop. Even if she is realistic, she wouldn't be expecting this. All her dreams and expectation out of marriage is shattered. Does she deserve this? And was this is reason of her unhappiness? I still don't know the answer.

An year from now, you may wish you had started today

        The title says it all. So I want to keep the post very small.

        We humans have a qualities not many other animals can have. We are curious, we are ambitious, we are smart, we think, we fear, we regret and we fear regretting but the quality I am addressing in this post is we regret fearing.

        We fear taking risks at right time and we don't act. We even fear changes, the changes that will happen if we made the risky choice. We ignore the thoughts that comes in our minds, only out of that fear. We fear that if we fail, we might get scolded by elders or spouse, we might regret later, we may loose money, time or respect by acting to the thoughts. We don't make the choice that could change our life.

        After some time, when we don't have the choice, we regret that we should have taken the risk that time and we regret being a coward. This regret is very common because even if we are risk taker. If out of 10 risks I take one, or say 2, I will still regret not taking the other 8. There is a dialogue in a movie whose name I don't remember.

        At the end of our life, we don't cherish or regret things we did, how good or bad they may be. But we do regret things we did not do, how bad they may be.

agle janam mohe kutiya hi kijo

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