Thursday, June 9, 2016

Sweet Romance -- Baby mujhe hug karo na

        Since childhood I had a habit of following either my mother or elder sister in the house while they were walking. Even if we were talking on a topic or not, I kept following them. When I am talking, I keep talking even if they are not listening. I found the same habit in my fiancĂ© as well. When she and I are together, if she is busy, I follow her and if I am busy, she follows me. We both are childish in many ways.

        On Monday Morning, she and I both woke up early, had tea and got ready to go out. She put on some makeup like kajal and eye liner and she was looking too cute.


        Cook was cooking the breakfast. We were waiting for breakfast to get cooked. Due to hunger I started walking in the hall and my fiancĂ© unknowingly started following me as usual. I could hear her footsteps behind me all the time. After 10 minutes of walking I went to the balcony and stood there watching the surrounding. After few seconds, I started hearing continuous sound of slippers banging the floor.


        When I turned back, I saw my cutie pie jumping on the floor. When she saw me seeing her, she said jumping:

BABY BABY BABY, MUJHE HUG KARO NA
        And obviously it was so cute, that I hugged her tightly into my arms.

Wednesday, June 8, 2016

Be Good Do Good

        I am not a Nirankari but views probably are same.

        Today I read another shared post on Facebook in which Muhammad Ali quotes, "The day I met Islam, I found a power within myself that no man could destroy or take away". Well said bro.
        Why did you need Islam to be powerful? You had the power within. How can someone from the sky or following someone already dead bring it out, when you yourself can't?

        Few days ago, I received a Whatsapp post from my sister about Ram being an example for being good. I had a long argument with her on this belief.

        For GOD sake, we all know he killed Raavan and got his wife from him and later abandoned her into the jungle when she was pregnant. He even took Agni Pariksha of his wife to confirm her purity. Would she have been wrong if she would have failed the Apni Pariksha? No kidnapper kidnaps the victim to worship her. If she would have raped by Raavan, how is she wrong in that. Why did Ram rescue Seeta from Raavan in the first place then? Probably just to satisfy his ego. How can Ram be good?


One doesn't need a Ram to be good.
One doesn't need a Seeta to be pure.
One doesn't need a Geeta to know what's right.
One doesn't need preaching to tell you how to find salvation.
One doesn't need a religion to show you the way to heaven.
One doesn't need a religion to make you powerful.
One doesn't need a religion to have an existence.
One doesn't need a religion to not be a savage.

        I am Hindu by birth. I love what my religion says. But whatever it says I know it already. Even all religion say the same thing. If I do good to impress the gods, what use is it for. I better do good to impress my parents, my kids and people around me. I better do good to encourage them to do good.

        I haven't seen god or haven't been dead yet to know Heaven or Hell. All I know I live among humans like me. They deserve to be treated the way I want them to treat me. They deserve to be helped the way I want them to help me. Everything is give and take.

        Modi need to start Swachh Bharat to keep the country clean. We should ourselves be clean. We need not have to even pay tax. May be Swachh Bharat someday become a new religion to keep Indians clean. Almost every religion has evolved this way and for the same purpose, basically to restrict us from becoming savages.

Tuesday, May 10, 2016

Lady at the tea stall

        In September, when I with my 2 friends and cofounders Rohit and Sumit moved to Bangalore, we lived in a PG in front of Inchara Hotel, JP Nagar for 5 months. We 3 and 2 of our neighbors became good friends. We used go out for tea and cigarettes every 2-3 hours. There was a tea shop beside Inchara Hotel. A guy of about 30 years old, a servant and a girl of around 25 years old used to be in the shop.
        When I went to the shop for the first time for tea with my friends, from the corner of my eye, I was observing the girl. I noticed that she was unhappy. I wondered who is she. May be sister of the guy. Then I saw the toe ring, that only married women wear. She must be the guy's wife. I came back to PG in 10 minutes. I was thinking about her the whole day. I kept guessing her story and reason for unhappiness.
        She is young and married. She runs a shop. She gives tea and cigarettes to customers.
        Why will any girl want to run a tea cigarette shop? Will any girl marry any guy if she knows she has to run a shop for him? Obviously doesn't seem likely. She might not be expecting this before marriage. She might have expected a luxirious life after marriage as all girls do. But what happened instead. She is made to run a tea cigarette shop. Even if she is realistic, she wouldn't be expecting this. All her dreams and expectation out of marriage is shattered. Does she deserve this? And was this is reason of her unhappiness? I still don't know the answer.

An year from now, you may wish you had started today

        The title says it all. So I want to keep the post very small.

        We humans have a qualities not many other animals can have. We are curious, we are ambitious, we are smart, we think, we fear, we regret and we fear regretting but the quality I am addressing in this post is we regret fearing.

        We fear taking risks at right time and we don't act. We even fear changes, the changes that will happen if we made the risky choice. We ignore the thoughts that comes in our minds, only out of that fear. We fear that if we fail, we might get scolded by elders or spouse, we might regret later, we may loose money, time or respect by acting to the thoughts. We don't make the choice that could change our life.

        After some time, when we don't have the choice, we regret that we should have taken the risk that time and we regret being a coward. This regret is very common because even if we are risk taker. If out of 10 risks I take one, or say 2, I will still regret not taking the other 8. There is a dialogue in a movie whose name I don't remember.

        At the end of our life, we don't cherish or regret things we did, how good or bad they may be. But we do regret things we did not do, how bad they may be.

agle janam mohe kutiya hi kijo

        I and my 2 co-founders Rohit and Sumit of Awesummly live together in a 2BHK apartment. Few days after we moved here, Sumit bought a very cute golden retriever puppy (female). We named her Sudo. We play with her a lot. We take her outside in the corridor for walk, poop and play.
        Since the day Sudo came, our interactions with neighbors and building mates increased. We came to know that we are surrounded by hot girls from all directions. While playing with her, whoever passes by in the corridor stops by to play with the cute puppy, and mostly girls. She have tendency to go mad when she sees anyone other than we 3. She jumps on them playfully and start licking them anywhere and by anywhere literally anywhere.
        There are 2 hot girls in our neighborhood. They open their door when they hear the puppy barking. Rohit and Sumit act innocent and say "Sudo no Sudo no" but launch her in the direction of the girls as if she ran off from our hands. We 3 just stand there and watch from top angle. She lick their faces, hands, legs and even tits. Wow. We even feel jealous of Sudo. If we were her...

Wednesday, January 6, 2016

Startup World - Problem before Solution

You have a technology solution and then you are finding out the problems it can solve. You should work on finding a problem first, then find a solution.

This is what every mentor we met till date have told us. Though they are enlightening us the way startup industry works.

But I have a different view about it.
In problem first approach, first of all the problem must be worth solving.
Secondly solving the problem must be feasible. Many problems worth solving are not solvable due to constraints and infeasibility.

Just to over exaggerate, my biggest problem is the mistakes I did in the past that I regret. I want to correct them. For that I need to go back in the past and stop myself from doing them. So the solution is building a product which can take me back in time. I want to make a time machine. Lol.

I work in a reverse way. I analyse myself about what I am capable of doing. I see for problems I can solve later.

How pets and being stress-free can help in getting pregnant

We got 2 cats as soon as we returned from a 9 days vacation from Goa. As we were new to cats and with them playing around us, we were focuse...